You wanted her to learn but you did not teach. She read but did not interpret the same way as you, you don’t have to teach her to overhaul her way of thinking but to grow it as if her brain has another branch and you take some leaves from hers. There is nothing wrong with the way either of you view the world but you just need to streamline your visions and merge them together so that you see you both have the same goal. You know that day when you let her fly her own way, it was the best you ever saw of her.